At the end of the day, if either party wants something, they should just ask. This is a complicated question that warrants looking into the perspective of both guys and girls.
From a guy’s point of view, it would obviously be so much better if girls made the first move: we wouldn’t have to try as hard and we wouldn’t have to feel the pangs of rejection so often.
Speaking to Chinese girls, who are notorious for never making the first move, their rationale for never making the first move is this: they want a manly man who’s assertive, confidence and takes over control.
If this guy can’t even take the initiative to make the first move, then he’s not a manly man…in fact, he’s more like a weenie man.
A friend recently told me that I have a habit of dating guys with lots of deal breakers.
He blames this on my so called tendency to be a passive dater – someone who says yes just because someone asked.
If you leave it to some guys to ask you out you’ll be waiting til you’re an old spinster with a bunch of ugly cats.
You dont have to ask a guy out but rather give him the signals that you want to be asked.
With so many problems, telling someone they have a given problem is more annoying than it’s worth because they so often don’t see it in themselves.
People these days are so unsure of themselves that it is a unique way to set yourself apart.
Be the girl who knew what she wanted and went after it.
Take a leap of fate and go for it if you’re feeling all the right vibes.
It will take him by surprise and show him how confident in yourself you are.